I fix the update follow this
Okay long story short the update killed my desktop and to format hard drive and reinstalled windows 10. After 2 weeks I hit the check for updates button in windows 10 and it wanted to install the update again with a windows defender update also. It did it's thing and installed the update, after it wanted to restart to finish but this is what I did different this time. I went and downloaded this update for AMD processors from Microsoft.
Downloaded and installed that update, once it finished it asked to restart, so then I finally restarted the computer.
It rebooted and booted right up, checked update history and it had the KB4056892 and the the KB4073290 installed successful.
So it will never try install it again.