@TeeCee - Re: FAA
You're cherry picking a few isolated incidents out of a whole mass of data.
"On any given day, more than 87,000 flights are in the skies in the United States. Only one-third are commercial carriers, like American, United or Southwest. On an average day, air traffic controllers handle 28,537 commercial flights (major and regional airlines), 27,178 general aviation flights (private planes), 24,548 air taxi flights (planes for hire), 5,260 military flights and 2,148 air cargo flights (Federal Express, UPS, etc.). At any given moment, roughly 5,000 planes are in the skies above the United States. In one year, controllers handle an average of 64 million takeoffs and landings."
- National Air Traffic Controllers Association webpage
Given how few accidents there are, I think that counts as pretty damn safe (and a lot less risky than being on the roads!)