WTF would you refer to a friend by where they come from?
So.. Becasue we're friends we're somehow not to speak of each other's heritage or birth place? You must be a real star at social gatherings!
And if someone else asks me where someone is from or about their heritage, I should say what.. Some random guy on the internet says I can't be his friend if I talk about where he's from?
Why shouldn't we discuss these things? Come on, lets see why you think friends should not talk about where they are from or how they wish others to refer to them/their heritage/sexuality etc when it comes up. Why shouldn't we show an interest in each other's history?
You are just making sh*t up to try to win an argument.
Ahem.. Pot to kettle : You're black. Over.