Re: I had the reverse situation
Never underestimate ate the monumental self regard and narcissism of some women who simply can't entertain the idea that a man wouldn't try it on with them all the time.
The number of double-baggers I've met who think anyone who speaks to them is trying to come on to them is astounding.
I've also met more than I care to remember who, on finding out I'm not nearly straight enough to be attracted to them, become offended and either set out to destroy me (or cause some harm, usually with nasty rumours around the office) or set out to change me.
--> Couple of truckloads of them and I might let you know where I live.