Re: Negative towards who?
"If they swapped the guy for another girl, would there still be outrage?
There certainly would be from the girlfriend! Guys ogling other women is bad enough but goes with the territory, ogling other men is a whole heap more of trouble."
Uh, that really, really depends on the people involved. There's an enormously complex spectrum of sexuality out there, and not everybody fits into the nice neat pigeon holes you see in popular culture. Maybe most people don't, in some way.
My wife, for example, would have loved to see me get it on with another guy.