'Which of these are not supported by CalDav/CardDav/GroupDav?'
You missed the point. Standards are useless if you don't have software that put them all together, and integrates the different needs.
If I setup a meeting, I need confirmation request to be sent automatically and responses processed qs well. And I like my mobile sync with all of it. While being able to share documents in the meeting setup.
Preferably, without a web interface only which is a pain to use on mobes/tablets, and often on desktop as well.
Kolab has still a lot to do to match Exchange. Our collaboration infrastructure is part of the money making, and, really, doesn't require much specific management being integrated with AD.