Re: My anecdote
Any chance you may be going into any discussion with feminists (or women) with a tiny bit of an attitude that might help provoke the response you describe? I will, however, point out the same old point, repeated by feminists around the world - feminism does not mean man-hating. Why would we focus on something so negative and time-consuming when making our lot, and all people's lots, better? Most men are wonderful, we love them, love spending time with them, sometimes even enjoy working with them.
And explain to me, what are you doing to correct any inequality of boys at school? Writing unpleasant messages on this forum by any chance?