> A vegan that I know is very particular about what she eats, but wearing leather is fine [blah blah]
SO FUCKING WHAT???
She'll eat what she wants, she'll wear what she wants, and that's no fucking business of yours! Or do you expect to have to justify why you had one sugar with your tea and not two, or none? Seriously, how about minding your own miserable business and leaving other people alone?