Re: Non Issue
"One night we went to a "cafe" and had to use the toilet, which was hilarious as it was a mixed sex with urinals on the way in."
Benny Hill once did a comedy sketch on that subject - probably in the 1980s. A man thought his wife being silly because she wouldn't go to that sort of toilet. Finally she did and found it was ok. Then it was her husband's turn - and he flat refused to go in. Plenty of laughs for the audience in that portrayal - his devoted French audience probably thought it typical of the English.