Re: Quitting a job
It has been my experience that when you are working for a douche bag employer, and you are leaving to accept another position, you must do the following:
1) hand over any and all keys to the premises,
2) in front of the douche bag, and in the presence of witnesses, force the douche bag to change your password immediately,
3) inform the douche bag that you want your final paychecks sent to your residence,
4) inform the douche bag that they are NOT to contact you for ANY reason, what ever problems they were having are no longer your problem,
5) collect your possessions and leave immediately, and if the relationship is that strained, have a police officer present to insure a peaceful departure.
Then be very glad to be rid of those douche bags. Refuse to help in any way former colleagues from that place. You do not know if you are being "set up". The fact that you left under adverse conditions is fair warning that they can not be trusted. Lastly, do not bother with "exit interviews", they don't give a fuck as to why you left, and they are probably looking for some excuse to disparage you.