> I am always fascinated that the phrase "reproductive rights" always means non-reproduction: abortion, contraception and sterilsation.
> Have you ever seen it mean any kind of fertility help?
Why would you say that? There are plenty of fights going on around the right to access reproductive techniques that are forbidden to you. I'm thinking homosexual couples, singles, people with genetic disorders, and more. There are lots of places where if you can't reproduce just by sticking a penis in a vagina, then you can't reproduce at all even though technical fixes may exist, and people who challenge that.
There's quite a lot of heated discussion even within feminism on things such as third-party pregnancy, for example. And then there's the issue of the sheer cost of reproductive aid, even for heterosexual couples. That's also a discussion.
Abortion gets more spotlight, especially now because of contingent events in the USA. But it's by no means the only discussion going on about reproductive rights.
> Feminism remains hopelessly wed to the idea that woman are oppressed and will have their lives ruined by having babies and they need lots of help to stop it.
That's not true. The vast majority of feminists feel that women are oppressed by lack of agency on reproduction. Not by too much or too little reproduction. That means that women should be able to get an abortion if they are pregnant and don't want to be pregnant, as well as getting reproductive aid if they are not pregnant and they want to be pregnant. At the very least, the State should not legislate to restrict their agency in either way (and it would be even nicer if it actively enabled agency).
You hear more about abortion because in many places it's much more difficult to get an abortion, than to get fertility therapy, and people tend to fight for things they don't already have. But that's by no means the only problem feminists care about.
Part of enabling agency is that you should get clarifying advice so you can be helped making the decision that best reflects your own values, and not confusing or adversarial advice designed to encourage a decision that reflects someone else's values. That's why falsely posing as an abortion clinic is highly problematic. There's zero chance that advice given through deception is helpful.