Re: FFS There is NO miracle cure
The human body is incredibly complicated. The basic calories in/used argument is obviously true
It may be "obviously true", but it's not actually true in any useful sense. First, not all calories (actual thermodynamic calories of chemical energy1) in food are used - some are excreted.2
Second, it's well-established that, as JDX says, the body is very complicated, and is generally much better at making use of calories arriving in some forms than in others. See this article for a decent introduction.
In short, the thermodynamic dieting slogan ("don't eat more calories than you use") might make a nice bumper sticker, but it says nothing insightful about human weight gain.
JFTR, I'm one of those people who has no trouble maintaining a healthy weight, with little effort. I eat what I want, and rarely exercise for the sake of exercise, but my weight hasn't changed significantly in the past 25 years. I know plenty of people who make a concerted effort to eat a healthy variety, avoid junk food, control portions, and exercise regularly, but nonetheless struggle all the time to achieve and keep what the medical profession considers a healthy weight. Weight gain may ultimately come down to behavior, but some people have to behave a lot harder.
1Plus a small amount of heat energy when eating foods hotter than the body core temperature, minus a small amount of heat energy when eating foods colder. These effects can probably be ignored.
2Various writers claim that excrement contains "almost no" calories, but what they mean, if they know what they're talking about in the first place, is that there are few calories metabolizable by humans in the excrement of (healthy) humans; our digestive systems are about as efficient with one pass as they would be with two (unlike, say, those of rabbits). There are still thermodynamic calories in excrement - we're far from capable of extracting all the chemical energy bound in feces, and even urea has some chemical energy (obviously). Plus there's some heat loss, as there is with respiration.