Hmmm
A little odd her account was closed, but from Facebook's perspective it probably goes:
If you have a face book account you accept people are going to contact you.
There are ways to actively block people, if you don't use them, then you are giving your consent to be contacted.
If you then later drag this into court, whilst not taking the effort to use said blocking feature you are too much of a liability.
And I think the account probably belongs to Facebook.
Not sure if email is really pull - it is actually push technology with a little pull at the end if you are using a remote client. Though the pull, push thing is a bit of a red herring.
I just lament the fact the net has become so serious, and hark back to the good old days when everything was just a bit of a lark. Can't we just ban the normal people from the net, and reclaim our cyber frontier days :)