>>> You take someone to court for breach of license terms. They consult their lawyers who read the license and tell them to agree to your terms out of court. And this makes your case "dead in the water" ?
Well yes in the context that it was being viewed in.
An out of court settlement means nothing in the big scheme of things - it doesn't set a precedent. So far such a case has never gone to court and so in any future case that does, there is no prior case to bring up as in "in case x vs y, the court held that the licence was valid ..." The bigger the case, the more important previous case lore becomes when you are weighing up the risks if litigation.
It also means there are no previous cases the FSF / SFLC/ etc / etc can hold up in pulic and say "yes, the court HAS examined out licence and agreed that it is valid" - such an ability would be very useful in the "FUD wars" with Microsoft etc who are quite happy to have people believe that the GPL etc aren't valid.